The heartbreak is over, and you're ready to step out into the world, what now? Your past relationship was full of great memories, experiences and adventures, why put negative feelings towards them just because things didn't work out?
"It is better to ave loved and lost than to have never loved at all."
One should appreciate love for what it was, not for what it is now, even if it can no longer be. The lies, deception, and miscommunication around the end should not ruin your interpretation of the experience as wa while. What you should concentrate on is how you felt at thae time, not what your current reality is. You enjoyed it at the time and you want to live without regret. Let's hope to be able to look back upon the good memories with your ex and feel warm, knowing that they are over and will never be again, but to appreciate them none the less for what they were. When you can remember the old times warmly without pining for them, you'll know that you've reached a new level of mental enlightenment.
I agree with the points above.
When the relationship ends, the friendship doesn't have to end.
There's hardly any use to resent or to blame.
No matter how angry or hurt you feel, it isn't going to change the ending.
Why not forgive and remember the good times as they were?
At a point in time, you loved each other and those feelings were real, even if they were a thing of the past.
"Some of us think holding on makes us strong.. sometimes, it's by letting go."
Accept it as something that can no longer be, but remember the good times, the good points you saw in each other and move on.
Someday, you will find the happiness you deserve.
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